Mature Fashion: Too Many Roles

Sorry, Blurry picture

Yikes!!  I no longer have the "role" of salesperson at the furniture store and thought I might be able to enjoy a bit of extra traveling, etc. this summer and have time to catch up on several neglected tasks.  Somehow, I managed to pick up two more "roles" in the mean time, and have been inundated with a few unexpected maintenance issues!!

Our Homeowners association has a librarian who had rotator cuff surgery a few weeks ago.  Obviously, she is incapacitated for several more weeks. In the meantime, library books to be returned to shelves, new donations f books and media have been piling up. I have taken on her duties until she can return. Fortunately, the clothing that I wear for my day to day home maintenance are the same, and I do not have to plan purchase other garments, etc.

The second additional "role" is my exercise mode. I have been used to doing all my planned physical exercise routines at home and at different times during the day.  I most often wore my "bedtime uniform" which doubled for exercise at home in the morning (see April 17th post-RockMyFitness.blogspot.com).  This clothing worked very well for me when I was exercising at home. Now that I am working out at the clubhouse, I do have to be a bit more "covered up" because of the mixed company and the frequent necessity to immediately perform an errand for the library (they are in the same building).

I have taken on another activity; jewelry making!  I absolutely LOVE the idea of creating my own pieces to accessorize new combinations and ensembles.  This activity is also appropriate for the clothing I wore for my role at the furniture store, so I find I really have very few changes to accommodate.

My picture in the upper left hand corner is a bit blurry at the hemline of pants, etc.  The picture does not show the cute buttoned vents at the hem.  I took the opportunity to use this costume as an example of freshening a look by just adding one trendy item.  In this case, the chunky heeled sandals (BTW, they are extremely comfortable). I styled the same top with black pants two seasons ago using a boho look and the same pants with a Chinese inspired top and men's look buckled shoes.  The lay-downs for both looks (taken from my stylebook)  I am proud to say that every item you see in the lay-downs have paid for themselves at least twice over, and I plan on incorporating each of them in at least one more year's stylings.

I have already worn the clunky sandals three times, and the season is just beginning.  I bought them several months ago at Payless Shoe Source.  I usually cannot wear their shoes successfully, however, these did feel good on my feet and I new they were "on trend" for S/S 2016, and ON SALE; two of my favorite words when looking for items that are not expected to be worn that much.  I paid about $15.00 for them, which comes to $5.00 per wearing so far.  I do think I will wear them at least ten more times over the summer bringing them to my projected price point of $1.00 per wearing.  All of the other items have met this criterion except  the blue Makowski purse.  It has about twenty five more wearings before it earns its value, ($200.00) but I expect to have that no later than next year. Obviously, I have had it a few years already.  

All of these new activities have prevented me from getting the closet collections all posted to RockMyRunwaay.blogspot.com.  I do expect to have a new post here soon with the crafting projects I am making for F/W 2016!  You have already seen the Crafty Collars. (I have already created two of them!)

Mature Fashion: Styling for the Role

"Beyond the Boudoir"..perfect for today's at home/errands

I have posted a lot of information on the importance of planning "costumes" for the "roles" each woman plays on the stage of the play called "My Life". Each "costume" is the outside appearance of our actress in her chosen role. The costume tells her audience who she is and immediately conveys the role she chooses to play. This will happen whether she chooses to do so or NOT. I have mentioned many times that this immediate identify is established at a subliminal level and will always create an effect; hopefully, the one the wearer chooses to project.

I have mentioned that the division of my roles has changed significantly this summer.  I need mostly clothing that is practical for all types of household and landscaping chores, suitable for everyday errands like
banking, grocery shopping, dentist, informal meetings, etc.

I also want to be comfortable and fashionable in all these environments without looking "over the top". That is the message I want to send.  This selection from my "Beyond The Boudoir" collection is exactly on target for me today.  I have vacuuming, laundry, re-arranging a closet, writing the post, and paying bills at home.  I do have a trip to both the bank and grocery store also.  I also need to drop some items at the thrift store for re-cycle.  

Although the picture was taken with heels (which I will wear when I do my errands), I will be wearing my whimsical cat house flats. (I always wear flats in the house, never slippers.  

Today is the first time I actually wore this ensemble.  I have to say, it felt wonderful!  It was every bit as comfortable as the flannel pajamas and thermal top when I was at bed rest.  The belt is stretch, but it made me feel very "pulled together", while giving me the same degree of comfort .

I have a feeling that this seasonal "fad" may remain in my style arsenal (yes, it will be updated to keep the look current-or replaced if I find something better!!) 

You have probably noticed that you do not see me in much jewelry in my pictures; I am usually in my "at home" costumes.  I usually only am wearing my earrings while I do household chores. I keep other jewelry off because it usually interferes with my chores. I do put it on, change my shoes, and grab an already prepared purse when I leave the house.(I frequently change my purse every morning to accessorize; it also helps me maintain an orderly purse!)

I have designed a few more at home outfits that I will show from time to time if I find other practical "boudoir" garments for day wear. 

Mature Fashion: Home Maintenance

Well, we had rain in May! Very unusual at this time of year.  In fact, the weather has been very strange all year! One day brings us very warm weather, the next day it feels like it is still February...some days we have both conditions on the same day!! Of course, these weather conditions mean layers; thin and Springtime appropriate, but layers,

I am spending a lot of time attending to neglected "chores" that have been put off way too long.  To the left is a typical outfit for the type of chores and the accompanying errands I have to run within the day.  Note the layered top and gauzy neck scarf; simple to add or to remove, depending upon the condition.  The same holds true for the footwear.  Today I am going a lot of work that will require me to frequently change my footwear (garden boots, sport slip-ons, and low heeled pumps for the errands)  The only jewelry I wear is a watch that fits close to the wrist and does not get in my way.  Should I get my hair messed up, (almost a sure thing) I will wear my white fedora hat.

Each of the outfits I have on in these pictures represent costumes for these identical roles. I plan the night before what I most likely will need to wear, make sure it is handy, and go about my daily business.  Each of these outfits have a basic top and bottom that is sturdy enough to handle regular household maintenance, in good enough condition to face a public display, and has easy to wear accessories that can be quickly dressed up or dressed down depending upon the required errand or unplanned event.  As you can see, usually only a change of shoes (if necessary), addition of a simple accessory or two, quick flick to neaten hair (although mine is usually messy-it is hard to deal with-lucky the current trend is "messy" hair) .  If it is too messy, I just add a casual hat.  I usually change my handbag the night before; a ritual that allows me to coordinate clothes, keep my purse free of bits and pieces, and to add my coin change to my savings jar. (for those special purchases I plan each season -my white leather boots for F/W 2016)

For "at home" jewelry, I have a small jewelry box on the bathroom counter that contains my simple band ring(s), subtle gold or silver jewelry, and small neck chains, etc., items that are simple to put on and literally go with anything.  These are items I never plan in advance.  If I am doing something special, I plan my jewelry the night before with my other "dress up" outfits for other roles.
Like most of us, I know what these occasions are and the clothing I will wear.  Those outfits to the left are my "home maintenance" (at home) "uniforms.

I almost always plan the impromptu layering; our weather has been so unpredictable I am either taking something off or putting it on!!

Mature Fashiobn: Job Hunting

It finally looks like we are beginning to have some warmer weather(regularly) and I am taking the time to look at one or two part time jobs in which I may be interested.

Because RockMyRole is all about the different roles we mature women play in our play of "Lifestyle", it seems appropriate to post a well thought out strategy in dressing for the different aspects of a working role.  In both of these pictures, I am demonstrating business casual attire where I will simply be picking up an application or returning it. (I always try to do this because I believe that all opportunities to "connect" with a prospective employer are significant to reach my goal, the job I want).  The yellow ensemble is what I would wear for a formal interview on any of the jobs I would seek; I would wear the maroon only for inquiries as to whether employment is available or to pick up an application or to return the application. Because both jobs I am considering are in casual retail, I will also be "shopping the store".  This tactic allows the person's who I would be interfacing with to observe me, (often that person may have influence in the hiring procedure) and evaluating my potential role as employee.

The dress "for an interview" rules for a person of my age are very different than for my younger counterpart; they are also very different for the mature 40 to 60 age group.  I am over 70, and I know finding the job I want may be difficult.  I might consider re-coloring my hair (I just decided to bleach it out white this past year) as well as carefully considering the impact of what I wear. I have to project instantly a youthful, vibrant, and energetic woman; one who is not too frail, "dotty", etc., etc., All of these latent "old age" stereotypes have to be dispelled within the few seconds it takes for a potential employer to register my appearance.

Of course, I will use my styling to accomplish this impression before I speak the first word. The mild yellow outfit I am wearing in the picture is further accessorized with a simple "boyfriend" watch and my wedding ring.  I will use the camel and cream structured handbag to lend a more modern feel to the outfit without drawing any undo attention to any focal point. Why, you ask? Well....

Most interview experts recommend that the attire for any aspect of the employment process should not draw undo attention but should present an over all impression of solid, good judgement.  It is recommended that accessories be of good leather, (or a quality substitute) ; never athletic materials, straw, or canvas.  Jewelry or other accessories should be simple, no perfume, and sensible but fashionable shoes.  The look should be not too affluent but radiate durability and quality. Hair, grooming and cosmetics should be subtle, etc. (BTW, many, many studies and much research has been done in this psychological employment arena, and the results are consistent year after year.)

A word more about the shoes; comfort is essential . (Sore or hurting feet always reflect negatively in the facial movements, etc.) Depending upon the job one is seeking, it may be appropriate to wear heels.  Most older women who are even a little bit over their ideal weight when wearing low heels tend to look a bit frumpy when they are worn with a suit (matched or otherwise). Depending upon the job, wearing a pant suit is more effective for an interview, and usually are best when worn with a two inch heel. A dress with a blazer or sweater is usually more effective than the suit, and when worn with either flat or low heels. Unless working in a fashion or artistic professional environment, an older woman is cautioned from wearing high heels, boots, or other a la mode trendy footwear.

Extreme fashion statements of any kind are not recommended (this applies to women of any age!!) Once again, high fashion or art based businesses can be an exception, but do your research.

For the type of job I am looking for, the garments I am wearing reflect the type of outfit I would wear to pick up and return an application or make inquiry,  I would also make sure my nails were well manicured with a neutral polish and my hair style neither too severe nor too messy. (my greatest challenge).

The deep red purse (looks lighter here than in real life) is very plain, the "look" I want, particularly because I have the gold buttons on both the loafers and the sweater jacket.  The only jewelry I am wearing are gold earrings and a gold ring on each hand.  The stripes are ornament enough and add a little trend to an otherwise too classic ensemble. (The stripes also convey a touch of youthfulness without looking like I am trying too hard ).  This outfit could be improved with a pair of perfectly matched dark red plain oval toed flats, but I don't have them, nor could I find any in exactly the right shade.  (If I can find them for my optimal purchase price I would get them because I expect to wear the pants and sweater for several more seasons-the stripes will probably not)

Mature Fashion: Changing Roles

I am reviewing the amount of wear I will be getting from the ensembles I styled earlier in the year (last winter, actually).  I have mentioned earlier that I make a style book of the stylings I compile because I assemble the articles I plan on wearings the night before I go to work.  I want to remember the way  I planned to wear it without trying to pull it all together in the morning (I don't know about you, but I always seem to be short of time). I am also able to check the items for loose threads, marks, spots, or other maintenance issues that I would not have time to address in the morning.

This ensemble is typical wear for my part time job at the furniture store.  I am now more likely to wear it with on of these three pair of "comfort" shoes, depending upon my plan for the day.  I will, and do, sometimes wear heels when I am at home for the day, but only if I am not going to be doing chores that would make the heels either unsafe or too uncomfortable.  I did not wear any heel for a few years and found that my legs became too uncomfortable anytime.  When I "re-invented" myself (returned occasionally to the type clothing I wore as a working professional), I now make it a point to wear them at least once a week. Of course, I only wear comfortable shoes of any kind, but the continued use of some heel has kept me able to wear them when I want to be more "dressed up".  I also choose to wear heels frequently because they add height to my frame.

Another reason I take a picture is for my style book and to critique my own styling.  For example, I wear only a pair of pearl earrings and a ring on in this picture.  (I have styled most of my ensembles with minimalist jewelry because that is a 'youthful' trend)  When I review the picture, I believe that I will add my Pandora or my white jade/gold narrow bracelet to the outfit.  Just this touch matches my own personal aesthetic; more rings or a necklace would not provide the touch that I want to be "me" and still update a look.

As you already know if you have read many of my posts, I do not believe a woman can have too many accessories if she has the room for storage.  The mix and match of accessories is what allows a woman to instantly update a look and "shop her closet".

I also will choose from a selection of purses; I have the nautical ones in the picture but I also have the option of using two additional red ones that might be more suitable for a specific purpose.  (I really do like looks to be "just right" for me). It is the current trend to mix the color of metals, but for the most part, I do not like that look.  I try to have different shapes in accessories like shoes and handbags, however, I also want hardware on the bags to be either, gold, silver, or both on the accessories so I can match in a way that is pleasing to me. (Remember, fashion is all about YOU, what you like, and how you feel when you wear it!!)..Enough preaching !!


I have to complete a bit of wardrobe styling for the remainder of the summer.  I am dawdling a bit because I am not sure exactly what I want to do.  I know that I do not want to work more than two days a week, and I do like having a few months off during the winter.  Unfortunately, that is one of the benefits that I had to give up in leaving my latest employment.  I am still planning my solutions (and options).  You can bet that my choice of wardrobe for these interviews will be well thought out.  I really do practice what I "preach".

Mature Fashion: Changing Seasons

Dressing for the Bay Aea,  California is a bit challenging; last week the temperature reached 91 (unusually high), and two days later the high was 62 degrees!!

Although it is not unusual to have both very warm and very chilly weather during the spring and fall seasons, this difference is a bit extreme. It also makes it very difficult to plan appropriate clothing for the week!

I have not been able to post to the blog for several days because I resumed my seasonal part time job at the furniture store. The change has taken quite a bit of my time because we are under new management as well as a significant change in personnel and policies. Some of these changes have required quite a bit of time on my part; I also resumed work two weeks earlier than I had planned.  I also had a mini vacation at Cambria to celebrate my birthday. (at my age, reaching 73 in good health and reasonably physical condition is something to celebrate!)  I had to prepare for work immediately upon my return.

I couldn't resist taking a picture of the elephant seals sunbathing on the state beach.  It was a beautiful day; we also saw the whales spouting on their seasonal migration to Alaska and beyond.

I have also posted a picture of some typical working attire for my job; this is the ninth season I have worked there.  The environment requires clothing that is both dressed up enough to represent the high end merchandise we sell, but comfortable and durable enough to withstand some abuse. The weather change has assured me I will most certainly be very busy for the next three months as this is the height of the season for recreational furniture.

If you recall, I told you that my at home roles and my work role suited almost ninety percent of my wardrobe requirements.  I usually only work at the shop two days a week; on days that I know I will be doing very physical work I wear exactly the same clothing I wear at home.  The remaining day I wear the same clothing I wear at home with only a simple addition of a change in shoes or addition of a few pre-determined accessories; very simple and very functional. 

If you have read the Rockmyages.blogspot.com posts, you are aware I am separating the styling elements from this blog and concentrating more on attire for the actual roles.  I find each of the blogs still to be a work in process (I'm not sure I will ever get the photography right!!).  Visit my new baby at Rockmystyling.blogspot.com; I do find that using them as styling journals really does help me to up my fashion game and, "Rock My Age".

By the way, (btw), I have discovered a great blog that seems to have the same point of view that I have for everyday dressing while maintaining a fashionable outlook on the mature woman with many roles. Check out Highlatitudestyle.com written by Nicole Molders up there in Alaska...(no, not a paid endorsement!) She can show you other 'closet collections' of how she is applying new fashion trends and the opportunity to see these fashion on another body type than mine. I really do wish I had some other models than myself.  You have probably also noted that "selfies" are really not my thing.  I really get tired of seeing my own face all the time, but it sure is great for my style book and helping me remember how I accessorized a specific ensemble.........

................................Geneva.............Rockmyages@aol.com.. 

Mature Fashion: Changing Roles(seasonal)

Windy March day working on patio

Hello Fashionistas and Stylinistas;

Well, it is the time of year for a major change in my roles; I go back to my part time seasonal job at the patio store, hopefully selling lots of outdoor furniture and accessories.  I believe that El Nino is over for this season.

As mentioned in my post of  March 2nd, the base wardrobe I traditionally wear at home will serve this role also.  The handling, moving, light housekeeping, etc. is very little different than what I do at my own home, and I will wear pretty much the same clothing and accessories.  I do take additional shoes to work and certain accessories to transition from certain tasks, much in the same way I do at home if I have an errand to run, and I usually would change the shoe or accessory such as scarf, gloves, or coat.

I do look forward to returning to work; the one thing I miss is the people interaction.  I love working with my customers, completing the sales, gaining knowledge about the new products, and generally still feeling a part of the work force.  If, and, and when I am no longer working at the patio store (been there eight years as a part time employee), I will probably still want to do something else that involves a lot of people interaction.

I have completed most of the posts I had planned for this blogsite; from time to time I will have a new addition, but for the most part, what I have to say about the various roles we play and the appropriate costumes we need for our 'theatrical' wardrobes is already in the posts. This information of how best to flatter ourselves when wearing them based on design elements, our body types, and our style preferences is only fluid if we change our shape, choose or expand our styles (as well as our waistline), and the same information would be used to evolve our personal style.

I plan to continue posting to "rockmyages.blogspot.com" as a journaling exercise for myself as well as sharing of information with my readers.  I will let my readers know when I do post to this blogsite as well. I hope the information I have posted since the beginning of the blog has been helpful to you.  I know it has helped me refine my own style in many ways...........

Happy Styling........................Geneva..................Rockmyages@aol.com